This free checker tells you if your follow-up sounds passive-aggressive.
Paste a follow-up or "breakup" email. We flag guilt, blame and fake drama.
- Guilt-trip or fake breakuphigh
Should I close your file
→ Close the thread politely, without blaming the recipient for silence.
- Guilt-trip or fake breakuphigh
I assume you're not interested
→ Close the thread politely, without blaming the recipient for silence.
- Guilt-trip or fake breakupmedium
haven't heard back
→ Close the thread politely, without blaming the recipient for silence.
Quick rule-based checks, run in your browser. The MailDignity API reads full context with AI and writes rewrites.
Silence is not rudeness. Treating it that way is.
People do not reply because they are busy, not because they owe you. Breakup emails that blame them burn the relationship for good.
A clean final note — no guilt, an open door — keeps the option alive.
Frequently asked questions.
Do breakup emails work?
They can get replies, often negative ones. The cost is brand damage that never appears in reply metrics.
What is a good last email?
Short, warm, no blame: "I’ll stop here. If it becomes relevant, I’m one reply away."
How many follow-ups are acceptable?
Two or three, spaced out, each adding something new.
Does it work in other languages?
The rules are tuned for English.
Check every email before it sends.
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